So my date with Winkie, which was supposed to be Friday night, got postponed to next Saturday because he got stuck in a meeting. Because it was a long-ass week and I'm just that lame, I was in bed by ten on Friday, so it all worked out.
I'm looking at this as a practice date a la Rivers-a-like. Because I got sidetracked by the Russian, I haven't been out with a guy in a while. Time to jump back in.
Also, yes, I am meeting Midnight Cowboy on Thursday. I have a work event that's going to run late anyway, and it always takes me a while to come down from those. The deal is, we have to meet at a bar near my house. I am going to text Rock the guy's phone number just in case. I have pepper spray and I'm not afraid to use it.
In the comments section of my last post, Rock got to talking about one-night stands. I don't have a problem with one-night stands. Who knows, either or both of these guys could turn into that. However, I don't think I'm at that point yet. If I were, I'd drag my friends out to a bar. I don't think I'd mind casual sex, but as more of an ongoing thing. And yes, I'm aware that some one-night stands do turn into more. But I have mixed feelings.
And as I said in my response, I don't have an issue with booty calls or one-night stands. But maybe let's be more upfront about it and not call it a "date."
If this doesn't make sense to you, don't worry. It doesn't make sense to me either.
You are doing that girl thing where you say you want/don't want things that are conflicting. Just so you know.
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ReplyDeleteWait, what? I'M A GIRL? And here I thought the breasts and vagina were for show. ;P
ReplyDeleteOh I wasn't talking biologically, I was talking in that slightly misogynistic, "girls are confusing" way. :)
ReplyDeleteThat makes me think of Leslie Knope on Parks & Recreation saying, "bitches be crazy" and shrugging. :)
ReplyDeleteDudes are just as confusing. If not more so.
Haha you are just contradicting yourself because you don't want emotional attachment and you do want sex, but you don't want a one-night stand. What's the difference between planning on meeting someone at a bar, getting to know them, and having sex and serendipitously meeting someone at a bar unplanned, getting to know them, and having sex?
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