When 3 Is Not a Crowd, by Rock

Last night I went out with some coworkers and I ran into EE#3 and his current boyfriend. Not a big deal; I've hung out with them before and actually really like them as a couple. He's also the ex that it is easiest to be friends with because it was the least amount of emotional investment on my part.

The two of them quickly joined our group. What was supposed to be a quick drink or two before getting to bed reasonably early turned into a bender. When the bar we were at closed, we headed to another. Close to 4a, the three of us announced we were going to drive to a casino. Outside the bar, we quickly realized that none of us should drive, so we went back to my place to smoke up and watch tv instead.

At this point I think we all knew what was going to happen.

On the couch, it went EE#3, the New Kid, and me. The New Kid's hand was on my leg. My arm was behind the New Kid's head so my hand was resting on EE#3's shoulder. When one of us would go to the bathroom, the other two would cuddle.

EE#3 was getting a little nervous. He kept talking about wanting to get back to their dog. The New Kid wasn't going anywhere though and EE#3 was clearly intrigued as well. Eventually I just climbed into bed and told them they were welcome to stay the night, but I was getting tired. They had a soft conversation about where they were going to sleep: on the couch, on the floor, in the bed. I said there was plenty of room for all of us in the bed, and we got in there in the same order.

Yada yada yada it was a really fun night.

What? You want details? Pervs. This is a dating blog, not a sex blog. Haha.

I only bring it up* because even during all of it, their love and attraction to each other was evident and so attractive. I wouldn't have slept with either of them separately, but they were so attractive as a couple.

I want to have that again someday with someone. It just feels so impossible to find. Definitely need a bit of a break from looking for it, at least so aggressively.

Texted them both this morning how I had fun, hope they got home safely, and hoped things wouldn't be awkward. Looks like we're all a-okay.

Now if I can just get it to happen again with them. That was fun. I needed the win. :)

*I lied. I also bring it up to brag a little.